Spring is about to spring!
The beginning of Daylight Savings Time is this Sunday,
Mar. 14th. An extra hour of sunlight when you get home.
(Condolences to those who have to get up an hour early.)
The Equinox is Mar. 20th. After this the days start get-
ting longer than the nights.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Saturday, March 6, 2010
The Criteria of Emotional Maturity
Please don't use this list as an occasion for self-criticism.
It's an ideal whose truths are more relative than absolute.
But if you are on the path of psychological growth, this is
a good list to think on now and again.
The word 'maturity' in this case does not relate to Crit-
ical Parent 'shoulds', but to the process of 'ripening', i.e.
becoming more of what one fundamentally is.
THE CRITERIA OF EMOTIONAL MATURITY
* The ability to deal constructively with reality
* The capacity to adapt to change
* A relative freedom from symptoms that are produced
by tensions and anxieties
* The capacity to find more satisfaction in giving than
receiving
* The capacity to relate to other people in a consistent
manner with mutual satisfaction and helpfulness
* The capacity to sublimate, to direct one's instinctive
hostile energy into creative and constructive outlets
* The capacity to love
--William C. Menninger, MD 1899-1966
William Menninger, along with his brother Karl,
founded the internationally known and respected
Menninger (psychiatric) Clinic of Topeka, Kansas.
In their time they had a great influence on psychia-
try and the treatment of mentally ill people.
It's an ideal whose truths are more relative than absolute.
But if you are on the path of psychological growth, this is
a good list to think on now and again.
The word 'maturity' in this case does not relate to Crit-
ical Parent 'shoulds', but to the process of 'ripening', i.e.
becoming more of what one fundamentally is.
THE CRITERIA OF EMOTIONAL MATURITY
* The ability to deal constructively with reality
* The capacity to adapt to change
* A relative freedom from symptoms that are produced
by tensions and anxieties
* The capacity to find more satisfaction in giving than
receiving
* The capacity to relate to other people in a consistent
manner with mutual satisfaction and helpfulness
* The capacity to sublimate, to direct one's instinctive
hostile energy into creative and constructive outlets
* The capacity to love
--William C. Menninger, MD 1899-1966
William Menninger, along with his brother Karl,
founded the internationally known and respected
Menninger (psychiatric) Clinic of Topeka, Kansas.
In their time they had a great influence on psychia-
try and the treatment of mentally ill people.
Monday, February 22, 2010
MILLIONAIRE GIVES AWAY FORTUNE
Will wonders never cease? An Austrian millionaire is
giving away his fortune because it's not making him
feel happy or fulfilled. Karl Rabeder will soon be mov-
ing out of his luxury home for a simple hut in the moun-
tains. His proceeds will go to a number of non-profit
organizations he started in Central and Latin America.
He says: "More and more I heard the words 'Stop what
you are doing now...and start your real life.' I had the
feeling I was working as a slave for things that i did not
wish for or need."
Since selling all his belongings, he says he feels "free".
He felt guilty about his wealth while on a luxury trip
that seemed nothing but phony to him.
" [I]n all that time we felt that we hadn't met a single
real person--that we were all just actors."
All the money will go into microcredit charity, which
loan small sums of money and strategies to poor people
who want to start up a business.
giving away his fortune because it's not making him
feel happy or fulfilled. Karl Rabeder will soon be mov-
ing out of his luxury home for a simple hut in the moun-
tains. His proceeds will go to a number of non-profit
organizations he started in Central and Latin America.
He says: "More and more I heard the words 'Stop what
you are doing now...and start your real life.' I had the
feeling I was working as a slave for things that i did not
wish for or need."
Since selling all his belongings, he says he feels "free".
He felt guilty about his wealth while on a luxury trip
that seemed nothing but phony to him.
" [I]n all that time we felt that we hadn't met a single
real person--that we were all just actors."
All the money will go into microcredit charity, which
loan small sums of money and strategies to poor people
who want to start up a business.
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